Tuesday 5 July 2005

Wed

My brother is a prat, my sister in law i cannot say what i think on here or i will lose my account...

Uncle is still in same place :o(  ...Not much change in him yet :o(  Mum is getting taken to theatre on thurs to be drained and a permanent drain put in...They should have done this months ago but were scared of infection...So instead she has been getting extremely ill instead...

Older sis came in this afternoon and i went up on my own after i picked up the boys then dropped them off at home...Typical we ask a nurse what is happening and she didn't know...Sis went off to find a proper nurse and they still claimed mum was on the drip!!!...She wasn't that had finished before either of us got there duh!!!...Didn't want to take the kids up in case she still had it in as youngest especially doesn't take well to that kind of thing...Sis left to get home before rush hour started and just typical the doctors came round again about 10 mins after she left <sigh> ...doctors said about what they were going to do on thurs...So i went home to make tea for kids and to phone everyone...Sis wasn't home yet but told my niece...Got younger sis on her mobile on her hols to let her know what happening...Older sis phoned and warned me brother was supposed to be visiting...Got his number off her (she had got it off mum)...See he doesn't even give us his new phone number...When i say new they actually moved into that house almost 2 years ago...Phoned got his daughter who was very cagey and didn't say where her folks were...Said okies can you tell them i phoned (gave my name) and said it was about granny...Then i was told oh well they may be on their way in to visit...FFS what is it with my brother and his family...Anyways my brother had several pops at big sis on phone this morning claiming he didn't know mum had been in hospital last dec...HE DID...Got on at her for going on her hols last year when mum was in getting the op she had that has resulted in what is happening now...SHE DIDN'T...Her hols were after mum got home and mum told her to go as she could stay with little sis...We are all fed up of his lieing, his holier than thout attitude, him playing the caring son act...Oh i could go on and on but i won't bore you to tears...His wife ONLY goes to see mum IF she is in hospital...She has never ONCE visited her at home...In fact mum has been in that house 8 years and she has only been in it once FFS...My kids didn't know who they were tonight...Well daughter did, eldest knew the man was my brother but not who the woman was, youngest didn't know who they were but showed the man his certificates anyway...My mum was really pleased to see my 3 and youngest talked none stop to her which is something he doesn't generally do :o) ...Mum kept going on about all my 3's latest achievements ROFL...Not like we're allowed to know anything about their 3 kids unless someone tells us in the street :o( ...Gonna go quiz as i can't sleep...Thanks for the kind comments left yesterday :o) Toodle pip xx

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Families are a strange breed ;)

Anonymous said...

(((you))) .. perhaps your brother is feeling guilt/worry/panic, and is just lashing out at your sister to alleviate that.. .. or perhaps he's a prat

Stay strong you xxxx

Anonymous said...

Families stuff can be difficult can't it.  The last thing you and your sisters - or your Mum - need right now I'm sure.
Still thinking of you.
Sara   x

Anonymous said...

I'm not sure what to say to this...........families?
And a hug  {{}}

Anonymous said...

families can be so trying, why do you think we get on better with our friends, we can choose them, we can't choose family. Hope your mum and uncle get better soon....Jules xxxx
http://journals.aol.co.uk/jules19642001/Itsmylife/